MEN:
How do you make a woman orgasm?
Well guys, I suggest you learn fully about a woman’s body. This can be done by googling anatomy and most importantly through communicating with your partner. Ask her what feels good and maybe even to demonstrate it for you. Different times of the month, each move you make will feel different to her. Sometimes she might like deep penetration, while other times it will be painful to her, such as when she’s ovulating and her ovaries hurt.
If I pull out, can she still get pregnant?
Yes. Although pulling out is in the top 3 forms of “birth control” people use, it is less than 80% effective. There are a couple of reasons for this. One is that sperm isn’t only present at the time of ejaculation. There is a pre-ejaculate fluid that contains a small amount of sperm, which is enough to get her pregnant. it only takes one! The other is timing. You would have to be 100% sure you pulled out at exactly the right time so that NO semen was inserted, or anywhere in contact with her vagina. This is quite difficult, especially if you are inexperienced.Take note: even if you do everything PERFECT, there is still a chance of getting her pregnant which is definitely not worth the risk. What makes the situation riskier – if she’s fertile at the time. Tracking periods is all good but ovulation can occur at different times of the month, and again, nobody can calculate perfectly. You also have no protection against STD’s with this method. So, if you want to decrease her chances of getting pregnant and catching or giving an STD, use a more reliable method.
What is the G-Spot and where is it?
A woman’s G-Spot is a clump of nerve tissue that is a few inches in, on the roof of the vaginal wall. Its sensitivity can increase with stimulation. Finding this spot make take awhile, so have patience!
Insert your fingers palms up, a few inches into her vagina. Curl your fingers and make a stroking motion. Feel for a firm spot that feels different in texture. You’ll know by her reaction if you’ve hit it. If not, keep exploring together. Once, you find it, you’ll both be glad you did.
Yay, you found it! After locating it with your fingers, there are a couple of positions to try that work better at stimulating the G-Spot better than others. Place her on top of you in a 45 degree angle. You really don’t need to be a mathematician for this. Again, keep experimenting until you find it. Another position is just plain old missionary position, but with her legs drawn up. This will give you the same access and angle as your fingers did. Patience and communication are key!
Can I make my penis bigger?
Um, no. Unless you want to have a painful surgery, with no guarantees, you cannot increase the size of your penis.Don’t waste your money on creams, or your time on “exercises” for it because they don’t work. The best thing you can do is to just stop worrying about it. More women complain about their partners penis being too big than too small. Seriously, size is not the most important factor to women. Perfect your skills and you will be fine.
How do I last longer?
First off, women are not looking for marathon sex. Actually, a top googled topic women search for is how to make their man climax faster. If you aren’t lasting more than a few minutes though, there are a few things you can try.
Numbing sprays
You can purchase a spray that will desensitize your sensations, which will make you climax a lot less sooner.
Squeezing
When you think you’re about to climax, pull out and apply pressure just under the head of your penis. Squeeze until the sensation goes away. Don’t do this too often during one session or you will frustrate the hell out of her. Make sure to continue touching her and keeping her going with your other hand as well. Skills!
Positions
Switch positions more often. Every position provides a different degree of sensation. If you find one that is way too stimulating for you, don’t start with that one first.
Condoms
Wear an extra thick condom. This will decrease your sensitivity and allow you to last longer.
Thoughts
If you feel like it’s all about to be over quickly, momentarily think of something else other than your physical release. Ok, don’t think about your grandma too long or it will be over instantly and make the situation worse. Relax, breathe in deeply, then slowly exhale and enjoy the experience without the end result in mind. Focus more on her, making sure she feels good and is reaching her bliss point. After she does, you won’t feel as much pressure to go all night.
WOMEN:
How do you make a man climax faster?
This is a very popular topic that women research, but the funny thing is, men are researching how to last longer.
I think a little bit of communication between the two would help a great deal to come to a happy medium.
There are a few tips and tricks to helping him climax faster though.
Lingerie
Men are naturally visual people. Take a few minutes to put something sexy on before getting into the act. He will already start out a few notches closer to climaxing!
Vocalizing
Men have been turned on for many years by hearing different words and sounds from their woman than they hear on a daily basis. If you’re satisfied or exhausted and ready for your lovemaking session to end, he could easily be triggered to climax by hearing something graphic coming out of your mouth. Be bold, not shy. Don’t be fake, but be very open and explicit about what he’s doing that is exciting and pleasing you. Men love to be affirmed. They want to know how great of a job they’re doing. Whether it’s through words or sounds, be vocal.
Positions
Just as I mentioned above for men to last longer, changing positions can make him climax faster. Experiment and see what provides him with maximum stimulation. Doggie style usually provides the deepest penetration.
Other forms of sex
Oral
If your body is tired, chances are your mouth will still work fine. Perfect your oral skills. Make sure you’re using your mouth and hands and ask for feedback. If you’re doing this right, you might get feedback in one form or another pretty fast without even getting the chance to ask!
Anal
This isn’t for everybody, but if you’re up for trying, you may find him climaxing faster than ever. This anus is tighter than your vagina which gives him a different sensation that just might push him over the edge much quicker. Make sure to use plenty of lube and start out slowly to make it comfortable and not cause any injury.
What’s that smell? How to make my vagina smell/taste better.
Ladies, don’t try too hard. If you are clean and healthy, there shouldn’t be a horrible smell emanating from your vagina. You don’t need to buy soaps, sprays and douche to make you smell better. Most often, the perfumes and other ingredients in those products do more harm than good because they mess up the natural flora and ph balance in your vagina, and cause infections.
Infections
If you’re itching, noticing a bad odor or certain discharge, you need to see a doctor. An infection is what causes bad smell and taste and needs to be treated.
Taste
Studies show that what you eat plays a part in how you taste. Fruits and vegetables that are high in natural sugar make a difference, like grapes, watermelon, pineapple, cranberry juice and sweet potatoes.
How long is sex supposed to last?
This is a matter of preference, but studies show people aren’t thrilled with sex that lasts less than 3 minutes! Some have said they are ok with it lasting 7 minutes but prefer up to 15. I was quite surprised to read that most people think anything over 15 minutes was too long. I think it depends on how much time you have, the reason, the setting and possibly age.
MEN & WOMEN:
Can you cure Herpes?
In a nutshell, no.
Herpes is a sexually transmitted disease that causes sores on your genital and rectal area. These sores are actually painful blisters which break and then need to heal. Herpes is transmitted through oral, anal and vaginal sex. Wearing condoms doesn’t guarantee you won’t get it or transmit it, although it decreases the risk some. You can spread the virus even when you don’t have sores and when you don’t even know you have Herpes.
There are medications that your doctor can prescribe to help decrease the number of outbreaks and make the symptoms more tolerable. Aside from that, you will have the virus in your body for the rest of your life.
How do I fix my sexless relationship?
This is a common question that mostly married men and women ask.
We are all tired from working and taking care of kids and running errands but you can’t let that ruin your marriage.
You still have to make sex a priority.
This topic is a lengthy one. To read the full article, please read https://thebittersweetlife.com/2018/the-magic-is-gone-how-to-bring-it-back/ in the RELATIONSHIP category of this site. Answers include communication, date night, role playing and much more.
